Rule #57 - Don't eavesdrop on them

Even though you would love (in a psychotic kind of way) to know what they think of you... don't bother. When your in-laws get together and talk about you, especially during times of conflict, it's not going to be nice, and you are not going to find inner peace by listening to them gripe, and hurl their inner resentments at you.

Leave them to it, and hope and pray that they find some sort of peace by getting all their anger and hurt out, so that you can move on to a happier existence with each other.

Leave them to their moaning and complaining, and fill your heart with happy thoughts and feelings.

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