Women's intuition - the ability to give attention to 'interpersonal domestic politics' is a gift women possess which assists them in creating harmony. However, this intuition, we applied to an in-law dynamic, can promote just as much hostility as it can harmony.
Using this intuition, women are highly sensitive to criticism and rudeness, to which 'the men in the family are oblivious'.
(Quotes by Terri Apter, What do you want from me?)
When it comes to the in-laws, it's better to employ some of this masculine oblivion, and let things roll, like water off a duck's back - when in the battle arena (often the kitchen, but can also be the bathroom, living room, hall way...).
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