Rule #54 - Let him speak to them how he wants

If your husband is a respectful and rational guy, he is really not going to yell and scream at his parents when they violate you, or your families rights.

Accept that he will speak to them in a calm way, using the least words as possible to get his message across. While you would love for him to yell 'I do no ever want you to treat my wife so badly again, ever!' Accept the fact that most men solve their problems with much less emotion than how women do.

Don't worry that he doesn't start singing your praises and admonishing them for causing his wife so much distress... just rest with the fact that he is taking conscious steps to protect you, and let that be enough for you.

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