Don't Sweat the Small Stuff

With all close relationships it is important to "choose your battles". Some things call for action to be taken, such as personal boundaries being overstepped.

Make a list of:

• the "big stuff" which you just cant compromise on - e.g. dinner parties at your place, scheduled time with the kids, being able to pursue your ambitions and interests.
• the "small stuff" which you should learn to accept - e.g. taking the in-laws out regularly, phoning her regularly when she goes away on holiday, having to cook and clean for them, etc.

Don't Sweat the Small Stuff